Feel free to ‘bother’ away! 😛 Okay, now seriously…feel free to bother away.  Spirit guides are there to help you through anything, and I mean anything.  They are always extremely (is this a strong enough word?) happy to help you.  Your spirit guides love you unconditionally, and that goes for everyone.  They chose to work with you, so let them. They’ll help you manifest a new love as well! Just ask them to be on the lookout for your special someone and to guide you there.
As for how you can find a new love, I will share with you a technique that both fully opens you to the idea of a new love, and lets Spirit know exactly what you’re looking for.  It’s very simple. You’ll only need a red pen/pencil/quill (you get the picture), a piece of paper, and an envelope. Sorry, no electronic devices allowed this time. You’re going to write a letter.  It’s not a ‘Dear John’ letter. Think of it as a ‘Dear Universe/Spirit/My Special Someone letter.’  I know this may sound a little wonky, but trust me.  On a side note, you can use this technique to manifest in any area of your life. Just switch the color of your pen and day to suit the purpose. Some believe you need to conduct this on a particular day – Friday.  This day is connected to the goddess Venus – the goddess of love.  I believe you can write this letter on any day…as long as it feels right to you. However, you should avoid writing this letter on a day that coincides with strong astrological occurrences, such as Mercury Retrograde. Also, you don’t want to write this when you are upset, annoyed, lonely, self-pitying and so on.  You must be in a steady and happy state of mind.
I highly advise you not to write this letter to or about a specific person. Â Remember the saying ‘be careful what you wish for?’…same principle. Â Besides, do you want to always have the thought in the back of your m
ind whispering maybe…just…maybe that specific person wouldn’t have chosen you without the letter? Â I thought not.
BONUS – If you don’t write about a specific person, and the one you want chooses you, that’s great! It’s honest, legit and based off of free will 🙂
How to Find A New Love
Okay letter time:
Take some time to think about what you truly want in the partner you seek. Be realistic, Brad Pitt is already taken.  Focus on what is most important to you.  Do you want someone who is kind, loves to travel, compassionate, good looking, compatibility in the bedroom, fidelity, same religious views, and so on.  Be as specific as possible. You’re outlining a relationship in which you feel completely at home. Yes, it’s your dream relationship, but make sure it’s a realistic dream.  Be honest with yourself.  If you’re not going to be comfortable with someone who is spontaneous all the time, say so.
Write down whatfrequency your relationship will have.  Will it be love at first sight?  Instant fireworks or slow but simmering feelings? Whirlwind romance or a more conservative pace?  What type of relationship? Marriage? Open or monogamous?  Will there be children in the future?
Now it’s your turn. Â Write down what you will bring to the relationship. Â Don’t try and make yourself into something you’re not. Â Are you outgoing, or do you internalize? Giving or taking? If you’re a little (or a lot) needy, then state it. You’re outlining a relationship for yourself, it’s a must to be you.
Sign your name while knowing  this letter will help you find your new love and set your intentions as such.  Feel free to ask your spirit guides to help your intentions manifest. Now place the letter in the envelope and seal it.
It’s time to mail your letter. Â Yes, you’re going to mail it…energetically. How you do that is really up to you. Â You can bury it, mail it without an address, leave it in a public place, read it out loud. Â Basically, follow your intuition. Â Be creative and honest. Who knows who you’ll find?
xx,
~Caren
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